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May 2008 – Year 3 Issue 5

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The Coactive Leadership Program

Shifting Perspectives Workshop
Owen Sound, Ontario

What's Possible? Coaching with Daryl
 

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"When something intolerable is
in my life, I head for the water.
It leavens me in some way.
Some middle-most part of me is soothed and silenced by it."
Alice Koller

As Good As It Gets

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"What if this is as good as it gets?" Jack Nicholson

In the popular film of the same name Jack Nicholson says this line and for me, it was both a classic Nicholson remark and a powerful question. What IF this was as good as it gets? I asked this question of my colleagues in the Georgian Professional Coaches Alliance at our monthly meeting. The ensuing dialogue was lively and intriguing.

What IF you looked around and suddenly realized that this just might be as good as it gets; that some things in your life, in this very moment, are as good as they are going to get. And ... what IF you could see the perfection of everything right now.

So many people are waiting for things to get better or to at least change. They sigh heavily and mutter "when xyz happens" I'll be content, happy, satisfied, relieved etc. They are fixated on getting to some point that will signal to them that they are successful or have everything they want.

Most of us have dreams and goals we are continually moving towards. I wholeheartedly support having an eye to the future and pressing forward to achieve the things we have our sights set on. What saddens me is that a lot of people are so distracted by what they imagine will make their lives perfect that they completely miss what is happening right now ... in the moment.

They miss the amazing people they already have in their lives while they long for the best partners or friends. They miss acknowledging themselves for the success they already have. They miss the benefits of their current jobs or occupations because they spend their time dreaming of work that will be deeply satisfying. They miss the incredible beauty in their surroundings when they ignore what is there to wish for something different. They completely miss the obvious learning opportunities as they buy another book that will give them "the answers". And this list could on.

While I believe that changing our perspective can immediately change the feeling or energy of any situation, I  invite you ... even challenge you ... to look at someplace in your life where you are wishing "things" were different and ask this question "What IF this was as good as it gets?."

Question of the month: “What perfection can you see right now that you might have been overlooking?"

Are you done playing small?
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Who I Coach.

Shifting Perspectives - A life-changing workshop that quickly gives you tools you can use every day to resolve confusion or challenges in your  relationships, career, health, finances and virtually every area of your life. I randomly offer this as a public event or can bring it to your personal or professional group. Check our the details on my website.
 

Ms. Daryl Wood, CPCC
Author, Spiritual Teacher/Mentor,
Life Coaching for the
Curious and Courageous

1-888-596-2385

The Coactive Leadership Program

At the end of this month I will venture off to North Carolina to attend my first retreat in The Coactive Leadership Program. I have read the reviews, talked to graduates and sat awed by the amazing abilities of people who committed themselves to this powerful training. This is both a personal journey of self-discovery as well as an opportunity to fine tune the skills to continue supporting others to be fully engaged with life. I'm excited. I'm nervous. I'm ready! Stay tuned!